Payton Ettinger case: Why hasn’t Greg Tressler been charged?
These cases of child murder, child abuse, child torture and child neglect bring out the anger in us. We have to fight to keep that anger at a level of righteous indignation and not allow it to take us over. If we fail in that battle, we become consumed with revenge…which is not justice. Justice must be served for these innocent, defenseless victims. If we forget that we risk falling into the same hate-filled, or violence-driven category as those who wantonly hurt others. That’s why I don’t allow talk of systematic torture on my site. While I allow someone to vent how they personally would like to wring someone’s neck, calls for torture are below us. They must remain below us.
So while a certain level of anger comes with reading, analyzing and discussing these cases, rarely do I allow myself to dwell in that emotion. Emotion clouds logic. But there’s a couple of people who have really pissed me off. And their names are Courtney Tressler (formerly Courtney Ettinger and maiden name Courtney Hughey) and her pathetic example of a husband Greg Tressler. I have to admit they make me mad.
Let’s review a few things about Payton Ettinger’s death which have been covered here in a previous article. The autopsy report for 4 year 8 month old Payton, who weighed only 12 pounds at the time of his death, states he was “obviously emaciated”. It goes on to describe that “the skin of his face was drawn tightly against his skull and face bones with obvious emaciation.” There is no getting out of the fact that the two adults in that house could not know that an almost 5 year old little boy was starving death – not when he looked like a Nazi concentration camp victim.
Let’s back up to the first 2 months of Payton’s life. More details have come out about the abuse that led to his permanent brain damage leaving him unable to ever talk, walk or control motor skills. What has been revealed is that this child was abused to death from the day he was born. He was never NOT being either abused, or neglected. Payton truly did not live a day…he only died for 4 years 8 months. The medical records that were presented in the case against his biological father, Martin Ettinger, for the severe abuse that disabled Payton, revealed the following:
In his first two months of life, according to records from the 13th Judicial Circuit Court of Grand Traverse County (Mich.), Martin Ettinger repeatedly abused his infant son. Records from the case show Payton ‘had a fractured tibia that was not recent’ as well as ‘numerous rib fractures in at least two, possibly, three states of healing and ‘multiple abnormalities with various ages including a small right-sided subdural-like hematoma’ in his brain.
So the first question – which has basically been asked before, but I now ask with more reason behind it – why was this child relinquished into the care of his mother, Courtney Hughey Ettinger Tressler after this extended period of abuse? Are we to believe that with these type of repeated and severe injuries this baby incurred at the hands of his father that this abuse was committed with Courtney having no knowledge of it? How does your 1 week, 1 month or 2 month old baby have a broken tibia and you don’t know it? How does your baby have “numerous rib fractures” and you not know it? But, not only was she apparently charged with nothing over this repeated and severe abuse of Payton in the first 2 months of his life, she was given sole custody that apparently had no restrictions, no monitoring…just take your damaged baby and go home.
And home she went. They had lived in Michigan during these first 2 months of Payton’s miserable little life. After the trial Courtney packed up and moved to Indiana and eventually married Greg Tressler. They have two children from their marriage. Greg Tressler has had no charges in the extended, torturous starvation death of Payton Ettinger, even though the infant was slowly starved to death in Greg’s own home.
Now, let’s look at why these people really piss me off. Payton died on May 17th. On May 18th Decatur County investigators questioned Courtney and Greg. As discussed previously, not only was Courtney caught in a lie that she had fed Payton that morning (the autopsy found no discernible food or water in Payton’s stomach or intestines), but she also was caught in a lie that she took him to a children’s clinic in Michigan in 2009. The investigation revealed that the last medical care this severely disabled child had received was in 2006 when he was 1 year 1 month old.
In addition, Courtney claimed that she had wanted to take Payton to the ER on May 15th, two days before his death, but was financially unable to do so. Apparently investigators asked her if she wasn’t receiving Medicaid assistance for Payton’s care. Courtney told them she had twice applied for Medicaid and had been turned down. The investigation revealed that Courtney had never applied for Medicaid. Not only that, but on May 15th, the day Courtney claims she was so concerned about noticing that Payton “was losing weight” (I’m sorry but a 4 year 8 month child does not drop to 12 lbs in 2 days) investigators found that it appeared Courtney wasn’t all too concerned about Payton’s degenerating condition. On May 15th Courtney posted on her Facebook that she was preparing to have friends over, grill out and have a picnic in the backyard. She added,
My babies are getting so big so quick.
Apparently she was talking about the other two children. You know…the ones that weren’t permanently brain damaged, were assumed to be healthy, normally functioning children that didn’t represent a burden on her as Payton had…a virtual 12 lb ball at the end of her chain.
There were several other things that most likely led investigators to not believe Courtney’s excuse of lack of funds as the reason for not taking Payton for medical care. For instance, in the days following Payton’s death Courtney took herself not once but twice to the Decatur County Memorial Hospital for treatment. And then there are the activities, as confessed by Courtney and Greg on their Facebook accounts, of how they were “trying to reclaim their lives” after Payton died. Because, after all, once you rid yourself of a crib-ridden “defective” child, you can start trying to achieve those freedoms and enjoyments in life that you were missing out on while you were starving said child to death. These activities included:
- skydiving, and
- rock climbing.
Not to mention that when Courtney was finally arrested on charges of neglect of a dependent and reckless homicide, she was able to post $15,000 bond toward a $150,000 bail.
Then there’s Greg Tressler who wants to just blow this off as “just a misunderstanding”, a case of someone in a small town trying to make a big name for themselves by blowing the starvation of a child out of proportion. Greg’s Facebook activity shows that 6 hours after Payton died Greg was on Facebook posting joking comments to a friend and playing games.
Apparently there have been people who have questioned Courtney and Greg Tressler’s accounts and their behavior and activity since Payton’s death. And apparently those people started pushing back on Courtney on Facebook…asking questions, stating their doubts, maybe outright accusing them of lying or worse. Here is what Courtney had to say to those who DARED question her story:
(W)ords of wisdom to those who need them; don’t mess with my family you will lose, don’t think you are sneeky (sic) when you clearly aren’t, quit being a s— disturber that’s how you run everyone off and end up with no one just wait it will happen.
Words of wisdom, Courtney. Don’t mess with us. Don’t think you are “sneeky”. We’re watching, and you’re not near as smart as you convinced yourself you were.
So why isn’t Greg Tressler charged with negligence, enabling abuse, or something? Why? Is it possible that in this “small town” Greg has someone who has a little too much influence? He sure is too cocky for my taste considering a child starved to death in his home.
Valhall.
Reference article:
http://greensburgdailynews.com/local/x332267296/Tressler-Accused-Of-Starving-Son-4-To-Death



